Ruben Donate Betancourt's Obituary
Ruben Donate Betancourt was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, brother, and a cherished coach to the Oxnard community.
Ruben was married to his devoted wife, Christina Betancourt, and together they built a life filled with love, laughter, and strong family values. He was the proud father of three children — daughters Theresa and Sandra, and son Mark. Ruben’s joy grew even deeper with his grandchildren: Marcelino, Jaziah, Victoria, and Jayvyn, and his great-grandson Julian, who brought light and happiness to his days.
Born and raised in Oxnard, Ruben grew up in a large and loving family of nine siblings. He was a man who valued peace, unity, and the importance of family. Known for his dedication to coaching baseball and softball, Ruben became a pillar in the Oxnard community — inspiring countless young players and leaving a lasting legacy on and off the field.
Beyond coaching, Ruben had a true passion for the outdoors. He enjoyed landscaping and found peace in tending to gardening — it was his sanctuary, a reflection of his care, patience, and love for life’s simple beauty.
Ruben was a die-hard Rams and Dodgers fan, and an avid WWE wrestling enthusiast. Whether he was watching his teams play, working on landscaping , or spending time with his loved ones, Ruben brought warmth, humor, and heart to every moment.
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“Love never truly leaves; it simply changes form.
Though his chair may be empty, his presence fills every heart he touched.
Ruben’s love was the kind that built families, inspired players, and will live forever in the memories of those who knew him.”
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